From a female LIB reader
I need to see what people think about this, so I know if I'm just going crazy or my fears are valid. We've been married for about a year. Before marriage he only mentioned her to me in passing, as one of his ex girlfriends, however, ever since we got married, I've come to know her in great detail as he talks about her frequently and with great delight each time. Apparently they dated for almost 2 years and lived together the whole time. From his stories about her, I learnt that she helped him a lot during the time of his life when things were rough. However the only reason he's given me why he didn't marry her is cos she's not Nigerian and he thought that might cause him problems in future. He talks to her everyday. He calls her when he leaves for work, also when he's at work.
I need to see what people think about this, so I know if I'm just going crazy or my fears are valid. We've been married for about a year. Before marriage he only mentioned her to me in passing, as one of his ex girlfriends, however, ever since we got married, I've come to know her in great detail as he talks about her frequently and with great delight each time. Apparently they dated for almost 2 years and lived together the whole time. From his stories about her, I learnt that she helped him a lot during the time of his life when things were rough. However the only reason he's given me why he didn't marry her is cos she's not Nigerian and he thought that might cause him problems in future. He talks to her everyday. He calls her when he leaves for work, also when he's at work.

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